My husband never proposed to me

2022.01.23 12:15 oatmealcremepie_ My husband never proposed to me

I know, the title sounds contradictory.
My husband and I have been together for 7 years, legally married for 1. We had a (happy) surprise last year and now our 5 month old baby is the best thing to have ever happened to both of us. Obviously, we got married for cultural and legal reasons. We come from an Asian background and we needed to be married for me to be covered by his work insurance.
I am a romantic and he knows this. He did “try” to propose to me in a quick and casual way before our virtual ceremony last year (because you know, covid). He basically said “I know this isn’t the most romantic thing but I want to at least ask you properly. Will you marry me?” He got on one knee but got up like 2 seconds later lol the whole thing was really quick. I thought it was sweet he wanted to ask me but I felt like he should’ve tried a little.. more? Maybe just take me to a nice dinner or something.. However, since I was newly pregnant at the time and covid was still happening, I tried to be understanding of the fact that we couldn’t really go out anyways.
We went ring shopping together and I picked out a simple small ring, worth $1200. I knew we weren’t in the best place financially so I wasn’t expecting anything crazy. He didn’t have cash on hand (they only accepted cash) so I had to pay for it first and he paid me back later.
So yeah, everything just felt more like transactions and nothing like I had imagined. I have mentioned to him that I’d like a real proposal someday. He agreed and said he plans on getting me a bigger ring someday.
Don’t get me wrong- my husband is a good man. He truly loves me and I know this. However, I can’t help but feel sad when I see my friends being proposed to in the cutest ways, with giant signs, where they’re all dressed up and all the family and friends show up. I’ve just always wanted to be proposed to in some cute way. My husband is not the type to do stuff like that, he doesn’t like attention and probably would never plan something big like that. Maybe he would take me to a fancy dinner and propose after at home or something. That just sounds more like him and I’ve come to accept it but in the back of my mind, I feel disappointed. I had always dreamed of a magical proposal from my future husband.
On the other hand, I’m a mom now. So our baby is our priority and the wedding won’t happen until LO is at least 3, or whenever we are more financially stable.
My husband works full time and I’m a SAHM. I’m willing to be patient because the proposal isn’t important right now but I guess I just hate that I have to tell him to propose to me in a romantic way. I wish he had just done it himself before LO was born.
Who knows, maybe he is planning something for the future but I don’t want to wait years and years for a proposal from my husband.
Not sure what I’m even asking for.. I guess, if anyone has been in a similar situation? Am I just being an ungrateful brat? Lol
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"Happy" Sunday! :)
I've finally published a new post about RAR III, I hope you like it!
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2022.01.23 12:15 lotekjeromuco Relapsed, but okay

I was sober for a week with no firm plan or do I stop completely or keep drinking over weekend.
I had a shitty Wed and by Fri I was mad as hell, so, I decided I won't drink much, although a guy I'm meeting each Fri brings rakija. So, he sat his ass as usual at 8 pm. I knew if I get drunk I would act like a maniac (because of so much of anger) plus I have no memory afterwards.
I was sipping myself tea for most part of evening but the guy just could not stop talking. He talked continuously since 8 pm to 4 am. Somewhere around 1 am I was taking small bits of rakija. Like a soup spoon every half an hour. With water and tea in between.
I didnt get dead ass drunk like I typically do. yey!
Plus actually I remember the fun part that came later.
When he went away I drank those 3-4 dcl that was left but I was tired anyway and wanted to oversleep the afternoon.
In the evening I went for some more wine and well, I partied with myself, music, and such... and today I don't have cravings. I hope Ill be okay without booze again this week and I actually want to go without any tiny sip of drink next weekend.
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2022.01.23 12:15 bobby2bundles Sacred sexuality

Each time a man connects with a woman and releases his life form energy within her, he leaves apart of his information (DNA) in her birth canal. If she doesn’t clean herself, his energy remain inside of her. It can often create illusional sexual addiction to the individual. When some decided to have multiple partners, that can sometimes send mixed emotional signals within the inside of her bodies vibration system. Women must be careful of this because different energies or spiritual forces are within her internal temple. Just think about it and ask yourself… Ever wonder why they call it sexual intercourse (INTER-Course)? It’s an inter course that combine man and woman, spirit with spirit, or energy and energy. This is something that a condom can’t protect yourself against because energy is behind the elements of animal skin. Another way of saying it…. Casual Sex or Friends with Benefits… No, No, No, I Don’t Think So!!! Intimate activity intricately entwines the auric energies between two people. Sex creates a powerful exchange of auric energy between those involved. These connections and debris are left upon the aura for a long time because they are not easily cleansed or balanced. ‘Casual sex’ with a lot of people can intertwine the energies of a lot of people into your own aura if they are not severed and cleansed. This type of cluttered aura can be felt by other people aware of the subtle energies. The longer and more intimate the contact with another person, the more powerful the interactions of the auric fields become and the harder it is for these connections to untangle and leave. -Darryl Sutton-
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Any suggestions?
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start on A4 destination D0
using my big raft lol
dealing with unfortunate events such as sharks, big waves, storms, water deficiencies, dropping some stuff, etc.
my route was: A4 Z4 Z3 Z2
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2022.01.23 12:15 OhNoThanosKilledMe Pets Megathread

There are three pets slots. You can't repeat pets. Each type of pet requires a different type of food: Fire, Thunder, Jungle, Ice
Each pet has 4 abilities unlocked at each rarity : Rare, Epic, Legendary, Honor
Rare Ability: Turtle Shell - The shell blocks a certain amount of damage from monsters attacks. CD time: 5 rounds
Epic Ability: Ice Snowball - At the beginning of the game, get 1 Ice Snowball
Legendary Ability: Super Turle Shell - When own HP is lower than 50%, more damage is blocked.
Honor Ability: All Pets in use have +25% stats.

Rare Ability: Dodge - Startin each round, a protective cover with a 100% dodge rate is added. CD time: 5 rounds
Epic Ability: Ice Snowball - At the beginning of the game, get 1 Ice Snowball
Legendary Ability: Recover - Dodge susscefully to recover your HP
Honor Ability: Bless - All Pets in use have +25% stats.

Rare Ability: Sacrifice - When you're about to die, sacrifice own HP to recover 50% HP
Epic Ability: Strenght - At the beginning of the game, get Strenght skill
Legendary Ability: Rebirth- Recover own HP after 15 rounds after using Sacrifice
Honor Ability: Bless - All Pets in use have +25% stats.

Rare Ability: Gobble - Sarting each round, gobble up 1 monster (not boss) on the lowest row. CD time: 3 rounds.
Epic Ability: Combat Ball - At the beginning of the game, get 1 Combat Ball
Legendary Ability: Super Gobble - Gobble range is increased to 2 rows
Honor Ability: Bless - All Pets in use have +25% stats.

Jungle Boar
Rare Ability: Somersault - Does a somersault and clashes into enemies from the top (max of 10 times) along with your attack. CD times: 5 rounds)
Epic Ability: Backstab Ball - At the beginning of the game, get 1 Backstab Ball
Legendary Ability: Super Somersault - Max limit of clashes increased to 15 times
Honor Ability: Bless - All Pets in use have +25% stats.

> Looks like having three pets of the same Element doesn't give you any benefit
> Each pet has different ATK and HP stats
> If you have a different type of pet post on comments and I'll uptade the list
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Anybody know what the lowest power LED would be that could still produce decent images? Or maybe a microscope design that uses low light?
I'm experimenting with building an ultraviolet microscope but the only LEDs available are limited to 3w diodes, these come in 2x2 arrays as well. The issue then is a diffuser is required.
An individual diode outputs 30 - 50mw flux
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